What If I Fall? Oh, But My Darling, What If You Fly? – E.H.

We fear so many things in life and all too often we let fear control our lives.

We fear not being good enough. We fear being rejected. We fear being judged. We fear not being worthy of something or someone. We fear failure. Perhaps failure is what all of our fear boils down to.

If we aren’t good enough, we feel we’ve failed.

If we get rejected, it’s failure.

We likely feel like we’ve failed at something if others are passing judgement on us.

If we feel unworthy, we’ve failed at being worthy.

And on and on it goes.

So rather than feeling like a “failure” we stay stuck; we settle.

Maybe we settle because we don’t think we can do better than where we are with what we have and who we’re with.

Maybe we settle because the devil we know is less terrifying than the unknown, because what if we try and fail?

We stay stuck, we settle because we are afraid to fail.

But, I ask this…

Why aren’t we afraid of fear holding us back from truly living?

Why aren’t we afraid of not living our best life?

Why aren’t we afraid of settling for mediocrity?

Why aren’t we afraid of not living a happy fulfilling life?

Why aren’t we afraid of missing out on greatness?

I know we fear failure, but if we never lean into fear, if we never take the chance, if we never lose sight of the shore, aren’t we still failing? Aren’t we then just failing at living life?

At what point do we get tired of sitting on the sidelines watching our lives pass us by?

At what point do we finally stand up, face fear head on and take our lives back?

What if I fall?

Oh, but my Darling, What if you fly?

Erin Hanson

My Wish For You

My wish for you is that someday you will find the strength and the courage to actually be yourself, your true self, and to live your life unapologetically.

My wish for you is for you to make healthy choices for yourself.

My wish for you is for you to not be afraid to actually be on your own, to actually be YOU!

My Wish for you is for you to heal the wounds that keep you attached to him.

My wish for you is to find the strength and the courage to allow yourself to be with someone who can offer you a happy and healthy relationship. We both know he’s not it.

I’m very sad for you that this is what you’re going back to. You deserve so much better. Please get yourself healed so that you can see your own worth and that you are deserving of a happy healthy life. In order to do that though, you are going to have to take accountability for your unhealthy behaviors. You are going to have to own your shit. You are going to have to accept and admit that you are the one sabotaging all of the good things the Universe brings to you.

My wish for you is that you heal so that you can finally find some peace and happiness and accept healthy love.

I wish you well.